Adolescence

Adolescence for me is the period within human life when most of a person's
characteristics are changing from childlike to adultlike. Changes in the body
are the most observable occurring at this stage. Other kinds of developments
take place such as, intellectual, academic. Social and spiritual. Physical

Selves During the phase of Adolescence, girls body is changing in size, shape,
and hormonal structure. Adolescent girls focus on their changing bodies. They
feel, look and act differently. Absorbing all these changes is very difficult.

The preoccupation with bodies at this age cannot be overstated. Small flaws
become obsessions. Just at this point that their bodies are becoming rounder,
girls are told that thin is beautiful, even imperative. Girls in this stage feel
an enormous pressure to be beautiful and are aware of constant evaluations of
their appearance. The movie "Welcome to the dollhouse" illustrates
this phenomena. Dane had never worried who was popular or attractive, but with
puberty everything changed. Her clssmates suddenly started to tease her because
of how she looked. All of asudden, her looks mattered. Her nickname was
"dogface," and they called her like this to her face. She was largely
ignored by the other kids. Her self-esteem started to crumble as she experienced
rejections. At this stage of life, girls who are unpopular, are discriminated.

And popular almost always is tied with being beautiful. In this case, Dane was
seen as ugly by her classmates and worst of all without an identify. This was
the reason why she was left out of social life and missed the developmental
experiences adolescents most need at this stage of their life. Dane was starting
to notice the importance of physical appearance in order to be accepted by
people. Even with her parents this was an issue. Her parents were always paying
their undivided attention to their youngest child and not to Dane. Therefore

Dane tied it up as "she is pretty that is why they love her, I am ugly,
that is why they don't love me as much, and don't care about me." This
issue created Dane a lot of distress and made her adolescent stage, even more
difficult than what it is. Parental Support Dane did not receive the parental
support an adolescent girl is supposed to receive. Her parents did not do all
they could do, to help her through her adolescence. They did not encourage Dane
to be true to herself. She needed their support and their unconditional love, in
order to overcome the difficulties she was facing in her adolescent stage. Dane
was experiencing pain at this stage, and that pain she blamed on others, her
parents, sister, etc. And eventually that pain that she was feeling was
expressed as anger. This anger was mislabeled by her parents and was seen as
rebellion. Her parents did no realize that her anger was a mask of a severe
rejection of herself. Dane lacked both her mother's and father's guidance and
love through this difficult period of her life. For example all the attention
was always given to either her older brother or her youngest sister, but never
to her. Her mother always pointed out that she did not have friends. When her
sister disappeared, she thought she was going to steel the attention her parents
gave to her, but she was wrong. Her parents were too depressed to put any
attention on her. Even when she goes out to look for her sister, and disappears
for one day, no one notices nor cares, because her sister has already appeared
and they are very occupied with her. Adolescence is a time when development and
culture put enormous stress on girls. So many things are happening at once, and
therefore it is very important for them, the support, love and guidance that
their parents give them. In the case of Dane, she was in desperate need of
emotional nourishment. They should have taught Dane about sex, menstruation,
birth control, etc., etc. Sexual Harassment During Adolescence girls face two
major issues, one is coming to terms with their own sexuality, defining sexual
self. The other issue concern the dangers girls face of being sexually
assaulted. In the Adolescent stage, many girls complain about sexual harassment
in schools. The content of this harassment's are both sexual and aggressive;
rude and controlling. Often harassment's extend beyond remarks to touching. In
the case of the film "Welcome to the Dollhouse" where this kid always
harasses Dane because he knows he can control her, and that makes him feel
powerful. And because Dane doesn't have a true