Ordinary People By Judith Guest

Ordinary People by Judith Guest is the story of a family having psychological
problems, which relate to one another through superficial behaviors. They
distort reality and hide their true emotions to reduce or prevent anxiety. The
book opens with seventeen year old Conrad, son of upper middle-class Beth and

Calvin Jarrett, comes home after eight months in a psychiatric hospital, because
he had attempted suicide by slashing his wrists. His mother is a meticulously
orderly person who despises him. She does all the right things; attending to

Jared\'s physical needs, keeping a spotless home, plays golf and bridge with
other women in her social circle but in her own words "is an emotional
cripple". Jared\'s father, raised in an orphanage, seems anxious to please
everyone. Though a successful tax attorney, he is jumpy around Conrad and
according to his wife, drinks too many martinis. Conrad seems consumed with
despair. Chalk-faced, hair-hacked Conrad seems bent on preserving the family
myth that all is well in the world. His family, after all, "are people of
good taste. They do not discuss a problem in the face of the problem." Yet,
there is not one problem in this family but two Conrad\'s suicide and the death
by drowning of Conrad\'s older brother, Buck. Conrad eventually contacts a
psychiatrist, Dr. Berger, because he feels the "air is full of flying
glass" and wants to feel in control. Their initial sessions together frustrate
the psychiatrist because of Conrad\'s inability to express his feelings. Conrad\'s
slow but steady journey towards healing seems the result of catharsis which
remove guilt feelings regarding his brother\'s death and his family\'s denial of
that death, plus the "love of a good woman." There is no doubt that Conrad
is consumed with guilt, this guilt gives him feelings of low self-esteem.

Survivors of horrible tragedies, such as the Holocaust, frequently express
similar feelings of worthlessness.